Premarital Counseling in Utah
Feeling Nervous About Marriage? You’re Not Alone.
Taking the next step toward marriage can bring up excitement and anxiety. Maybe you grew up watching unhealthy relationships, arguments, or even divorce. Or maybe you’ve been in painful relationships yourself and don’t want to repeat old patterns. Even if you’ve had positive examples, it’s normal to feel nervous about making one of the biggest decisions of your life.
Premarital counseling gives you the chance to prepare for marriage with confidence. It’s not about fixing something that’s broken, but it’s about giving your relationship a strong foundation so you both feel ready and supported.
Common Reasons Couples Start Premarital Counseling
Every couple is different, but here are some of the most common reasons people begin premarital therapy:
Improve communication skills – learn to talk about hard topics without shutting down or fighting.
Build trust – address any hesitations or fears before the wedding.
Plan for the future – parenting, children, lifestyle, and shared values.
Work through current issues – so you don’t carry them into marriage.
Set expectations – for finances, sex, family, and household roles.
Grow closer as a couple – understand each other’s needs and goals on a deeper level.
Why Premarital Counseling Matters
You may wonder: Is premarital counseling really that important? The answer is yes. Research shows that couples who do premarital counseling report higher relationship satisfaction, better communication, and lower divorce rates.
Premarital counseling helps you:
Learn to resolve conflicts before they escalate
Talk about sensitive topics like money, sex, and family without fear
Build a marriage based on connection, understanding, and shared goals
If you’ve ever worried about repeating your parents’ mistakes, getting divorced, or feeling disconnected in your marriage, premarital counseling can be a game-changer.
Support for Second Marriages and Blended Families
If you or your partner has been married before, premarital counseling can help you build a new marriage with confidence. You’ll talk openly about what worked, what didn’t, and how to create something stronger this time.
For couples blending families, premarital therapy provides tools for navigating parenting, stepfamily dynamics, and realistic expectations. Together, you’ll focus on creating a safe and supportive home where everyone feels included.
Online Premarital Counseling in Utah
Busy with wedding planning? I offer online therapy in Utah so you can fit therapy into your schedule without added stress. Online sessions are convenient, private, and just as effective as meeting in person.
With online premarital counseling, you can get the support you need no matter where you live in Utah. I work with couples across the state, including Salt Lake City, Provo, St. George, Logan, Heber City, and Cedar City. Whether you’re in a larger city or a smaller town, online therapy makes it simple to prepare for marriage without the stress of travel.
Marcus Hunt’s Approach to Premarital Counseling
As a marriage and family therapist, my goal is to help you create the relationship you want. I’m not here to tell you whether or not to get married — I’m here to guide you in having honest conversations, healing from past experiences, and learning the skills that keep a marriage strong.
I believe premarital counseling can drastically change the course of your marriage by addressing issues before they happen and giving you the tools to handle challenges with trust and confidence.
Start Your Marriage on the Right Foot
You don’t have to push aside fears or guess whether you’re ready — you can know with confidence. Premarital counseling in Utah can help you build the type of marriage where you feel safe, supported, and connected.
Schedule a free 15-minute phone consultation and take the first step toward a healthy, lasting marriage.
Other Mental Health Services Provided by Marcus Hunt Therapy
Premarital counseling isn’t the online counseling service I provide at this Utah Counseling Clinic. Other mental health services at Marcus Hunt Therapy include anxiety treatment, PTSD treatment, couples and marriage counseling, marriage counseling for LDS couples, therapy for men, and EMDR and trauma therapy.
Frequently Asked Questions about Premarital Counseling in Utah
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As a marriage counselor, my goal for couples coming into premarital counseling is to help them gain the skills that help them have a happy and healthy marriage. I want to help you talk about the hard things. The topics you are the most hesitant and nervous to bring up might be some of the most important ones for you to have the best marriage possible. Premarital counseling will give you communication skills, set realistic expectations, and help you deal with conflict when it arises. Most of all premarital counseling will help you learn so much about yourself and how to make changes to have a good marriage.
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Premarital counseling offers many benefits. It helps couples strengthen communication, understand each other better, and learn how to navigate conflict before it becomes a problem. It also gives you tools to grow closer and start your marriage on a strong foundation with the support of a couples therapist.
The main drawbacks are the investment of time and money, which can feel difficult when you’re already busy planning a wedding. Counseling can also bring up uncomfortable topics but working through those challenges together often leads to more connection and confidence as you begin married life.
Overall, the pros of premarital counseling far outweigh the cons, making it one of the best investments you can make in your relationship.
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In premarital counseling, you can talk about whatever feels most important to you as a couple, but there are some common topics that almost always come up. These sessions give you space to strengthen communication, address expectations, and prepare for a healthy marriage.
Some of the key areas we often cover include:
Communication skills – learning how to listen, validate, and talk about difficult topics without conflict.
Sexual intimacy – discussing hopes, expectations, and fears in a way that feels safe and comfortable.
Expectations and roles – clarifying what each of you imagines marriage will look like.
Finances – understanding different attitudes toward money and planning how to handle it together.
Family relationships – navigating in-laws, holidays, and how you’ll balance time with family.
Premarital counseling helps you build confidence in each of these areas so you can enter marriage feeling prepared, connected, and on the same page.
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Research shows that couples who attend premarital counseling report higher relationship satisfaction, stronger communication, and lower divorce rates than those who don’t. Counseling gives you tools to handle conflict, manage challenges, and build a stronger foundation for marriage. The success of premarital counseling depends on both partners’ willingness to actively participate in sessions and practice the skills you learn together.
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Premarital counseling offers many benefits that can strengthen your relationship and set you up for a successful marriage. Couples who participate in counseling often experience:
Improved communication skills
Better conflict resolution and problem-solving
A safe space to discuss difficult or sensitive topics
Reduced risk of divorce
Greater emotional intimacy and connection
Clarity around shared goals and values
Stronger ability to navigate family and in-law relationships
Higher overall marital satisfaction
These benefits give you the tools to handle challenges together and build a healthy foundation for your marriage.
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Premarital counseling is usually between 8-12 weeks of weekly therapy sessions. It is often longer when couples are diving deep into their past and working to overcome potential relationship obstacles together. In order to get good results, committing to weekly therapy sessions for around three months is best.